# Family Life and Social Customs in Nepal

_Published 18 June 2026_

Family is the centre of life in Nepal. Understanding a few customs helps visitors read situations and connect with people.

**Quick answer:** Many Nepalis grow up in **joint families**, with grandparents, parents and children under one roof. **Elders are deeply respected**: they are greeted first and served first. People use **kinship terms** even for strangers: **dai** (older brother), **didi** (older sister), **bhai** (younger brother), **bahini** (younger sister), **buwa/ama** for older people. Using them is friendly and polite.

## Respect and greetings

- Greet with [namaste](/blog/what-does-namaste-mean); to elders, a slight bow.
- Younger people may touch elders' feet at festivals for blessings.
- Use "tapai" (polite "you") with people you don't know.

## Hospitality

"Atithi devo bhava": the guest is like a god. Expect tea, food and many questions about your family, age, job and marriage. These are friendly, not intrusive. See [dining etiquette](/blog/dining-etiquette-in-nepal).

## Festivals bring families together

At [Dashain](/blog/dashain-festival-guide), people travel across the country to receive tika from elders. At [Tihar](/blog/tihar-festival-guide), sisters honour brothers on Bhai Tika.

## Changing times

Urbanisation and work abroad mean more nuclear families in cities, and grandparents raising children in villages. Video calls keep families connected across continents.

See [village life](/blog/daily-life-in-a-nepali-village) and [Nepali phrases](/blog/nepali-phrases-for-travellers).

## Frequently asked questions
### What does dai mean?
Older brother; used politely for men a little older than you.

### What does didi mean?
Older sister; used politely for women.

### Do Nepalis live in joint families?
Many do, especially in villages.

### Why do people ask personal questions?
It is friendly interest, part of Nepali hospitality.


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